Number One Always (NOA)
Supporting adults through sibling loss
NOA is a UK charity supporting adults grieving the death of a sibling. There is no word in English for somebody who has lost a sibling and it's a form of grief that's been overlooked for too long. We're building peer support, community and advocacy to change that.


Why NOA exists
NOA is built in honour of my big brother Kieran, who died suddenly in January 2025, aged 40.In the months after Kieran's death, I found how little support existed for people who lose a sibling as an adult. Sibling grief is often overlooked, even by those closest to you.NOA exists to provide support and advocacy for bereaved siblings, by people who understand this specific type of loss.
What we're building
NOA will offer peer-support groups where you don't have to explain what you're feeling, with people who just 'get it.' A space to share your story, in your own words. A growing evidence base so that sibling grief finally gets the support and recognition it deserves. And much more to be shaped by our community of siblings!Want to help shape NOA's initial provision? Take our siblings survey!


Where we are
NOA's application for charitable (CIO) status is with the Charity Commission. We're building this properly, so NOA is here for the long term and whenever siblings need us. There's still loads of ways to get involved while we're building!
